FREE YOURSELF WITH FORGIVENESS
- Tammy Nickel
- Nov 1, 2017
- 4 min read

I have counseled many people and the common theme is that they have not forgiven themselves, or others, for the choices that were made and actions taken at the time. This is a detriment to healing and keeps us captive in our own lives because we choose to stay in the muck as a victim, rather than allowing ourselves freedom by choosing a better way of life!
Everything in life is about choice! You can choose to get up in the morning and be happy, excited to see where the day takes you, expectant of great things to happen for you, perhaps even miracles to show up! Or you can choose to get up thinking UGH! another day of the same old stuff. What crap will I have to deal with today and who is going to walk all over me? Which one FEELS better when you say it?
Forgiveness is one wonderful way to release the old baggage that we carry around with us, day after day, for no reason at all. We tend to keep this past to ourselves, which keeps us in a prison by choice. When we bring these thoughts, feelings, issues and happenings to the light, there can be no darkness and therefore, no more prison! Forgiveness for others is what you give to yourself as a gift, as it allows you to let go of what has happened, so you can move forward to create a better life. When you forgive others, they do not have to be in your space. You can simply set the intention to forgive (the person's name) for all that has happened in the past, and also ask them for forgiveness for what you may have done to them. When you are willing to look at and acknowledge the situation, you can then discharge the negative energy it holds and release that to the light. Once this is done, it is much easier to move forward with ease and grace, feeling lighter and freer!
Some people have the belief that if they forgive someone, it lets that person off the hook. The other person may indeed feel a release of energy in the same way you do, and know that whatever wrong doing that was done in the past to you, that person will have to deal with as well. By forgiving someone, you clear your energy field of all that happened with that person, creating more space for love. Forgiving yourself works the same way. Perhaps you made a choice that was out of fear or maybe even hurt. If you allow yourself to forgive what you did, knowing that once this is acknowledged the negative energy can be released, you allow your body to empty this space and therefore, you can bring in more light and love!
Many people seem to find this forgiveness a huge deal and an impossible feat! Here is where I need to correct that perception. Anything we choose to do is easy, if we just know that in doing so, we make room for more love and light! It is all done with ease by choice and intention. It is accomplished with positive affirmations that keep the energy high and positive, so this clearing will be effective! It really is that simple.
Many make excuses about how they cannot seem to forgive someone, or why they are not ready to let go yet. I am proof that once you do, you are free from the chains that bind you to mediocrity and allow yourself to create the life you were meant to live. It is the past programming of schools, parents, teachers, society and religion that keep us in the box and keep us small, rather than each of us individually taking a stand and creating our own best life! Once we acknowledge and understand this, then moving forward, free and unencumbered is easy and freeing to say the least!
There is no time left to ponder how to move forward, as we are moving into the Golden Age of Aquarius and the 5th dimension, we need to do this now! There is only room for love and light in this new Heaven on Earth, so hanging on makes no sense to me. It is a choice we make to either stay in the trenches with the dirt, giving up and not wanting to trust in a better life, or choosing to create that which we desire and know within our souls is why we came to earth! I chose to be here to usher in the New Golden Age as a lightbearer and I am doing just that! What do you choose? If you choose to stay in the trenches, that is fine, it just means that it is part of your journey and it will take you longer to get to where your soul wants to be. If you choose now to release the past and let go of the dysfunctional life you were living, then you are right on course to move forward in light and love!
In knowing that we have the power within all of us to choose what we want to do, ask yourself, HOW MUCH LONGER CAN I GO ON LIKE THIS? WHY AM I HANGING ON TO ALL THIS JUNK THAT NO LONGER SERVES ME? Once you can answer those questions, you can then make the choice to be FREE! Then watch your whole world change for the better!
COME ALONG WITH ME, THE BEST IS YET TO BE!!



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