The Power of Women!

Since I was a little girl, I always felt empowered and strong and determined. I always felt that I had a tenacity about me that wouldn't quit. I had confidence in myself that gave me strength to move about my day in my own accord, not seeking or needing the approval of others. I felt valued and worthy simply for being me.

As I grew up, I watched other girls be needy, always trying to get attention from others, trying to be accepted by the crowd. I wondered why they felt they needed approval from someone else? In high school, this became even more noticeable to me, as girls were always made up to be noticed. They really wanted to fit in, be part of the crowd and part of the clique that seemed powerful in the school. I really could not understand how these girls thought. Did they not get enough attention at home? Did their parents not see them or interact with them? What was the purpose of attracting negative attention as that seemed to be what some girls found?

Now as an adult, I know the answers to these questions. The major reason girls did not feel empowered is because society taught us that males have the power in the world and females are second class. This goes way back in history and instead of challenging this belief and proving ourselves, women just went along with this flawed premise.

Women today have so many more options in all areas of life. We can now vote because a women made it happen. We can compete with men for some of the most powerful jobs and get them. Though we still need to balance the pay scale for women, that is a work in progress. My question to you is, why do you not feel empowered and strong? Women have so much to offer this world. Some women feel they need to stay home and be a housewife because they do not have anything to offer the world. If you choose to stay home because you feel you have a purpose there, to raise your children and perhaps home school them, then all the power to you. As long as that is your choice. Each of us have a passion and desire within us. What are you doing about yours? Though working in the traditional sense may not be for everyone, there are other ways to contribute to the world.

I know several women that still do not acknowledge or stand in their power and potential. They choose to allow the men in their lives to dictate to them what they should do. A true partnership means that we allow each other to be who we want to be and encourage each other's growth.

Women, ask yourself if you are living your full potential. If not, why not? Did someone tell you that you are not important? Did someone tell you that you are not deserving? Challenge that belief and you will find that it no longer serves you. The world needs each and every one of you to be empowered and strong, and to rise to your full potential of who you are. You cannot sit on the sidelines any longer and allow the world to change and move forward without you doing the same. I believe that each and every woman on this planet has the possibility of accomplishing great things! It is important that you be the best person you can be independant of anyone else's opinion. Look in the mirror each day and say to your reflection "Hello beautiful. I see you and know that today we will accomplish great things!"

When you start to feel your strength from the inside, from your soul, you will no longer settle for second place. No matter what choices you make, be happy that you made them because it is what was in your heart, not because someone told you to do them. With every move you make, ask yourself first if this is for your highest and best good. If the answer is no, then stop and adjust your course. There is no more time to waste. Every woman is strong, powerful, beautiful, brilliant and decisive. Every woman is independant and in control of her own life. It is time to stand up and be seen and heard. If you are in a relationship that is abusive, stop the cycle by either finding your voice and saying "NO MORE!" or by getting out. If you are in a job that does not use your skills and does not make you happy, then find another job. Better yet, create one for yourself. Perhaps it is time to start your own business and be your own boss. Perhaps it is time to start a business from home and be in control of your own future. Aren't you tired of waiting for everyone else to make it better for you? This life is yours to live, so live it well and live it fully! Be present and powerful every day. Never forget that we are all equal and we as women are deserving and worthy just for being who we are.

What do you want out of life? Who do you want to be? Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? You can have it all by feeling the power within yourself and then acting on your guidance to go somewhere or do something. Open up to all possibillities and want the best for yourself. Settle for nothing less than what you deserve, which is everything! Be strong, be empowered, be triumphant, be successful, be loving and kind to yourself. If you need to deal with past issues to get to this place, then do so. No more waiting. Do it now. Your happiness depends on it! I am woman, hear me roar!!

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